Finding a church is ridiculously difficult.

Location, doctrine, style, length, community, ministries… it’s like a Christmas wish list, and whether you’ve been naughty or nice really doesn’t help.

It took me about 5 months of coming to LHC meetings before I decided it was a community I wanted to become a commited part of. “Statistics say” (um… yeah) that it takes 6-12 months before a person feels a part of a community. That sounds about right.

We all want that love-at-first-sight feeling when we are looking for a new church, but just like the rest of life, it barely happens. And if it does, it’s usually a little while before the honeymoon phase is over and you realize the magic is gone. Then, time for a new church.

If you visit LHC, you’ll probably fall into one of three groups:

1. You’ll realize after one service that it really isn’t for you. (5%) - On to the next church.

2. You’ll fall head-over-heels in love with the people and the church. (5%) - Buy the ring and plan the wedding.

3. You’ll find a couple things you like, maybe some you don’t, and some you aren’t sure about. But it has potential. (90%)

If you find yourself in this last group, as I did, I invite you to come several times. Take the initiative to meet some people and let them know you’re new. Especially in a new congregation, we’re all new, so don’t be surprised if no one realized it’s your first time.

Say hello to some of the musicians (they’re nice), Pastor Sam, myself, and ask some questions. Get to know a bit about where the church hopes to go. See if your desires for Jesus working in the world match with LHC. If they do, come on back a few times. If not, keep seeking where the Lord might be taking you and repeat the process.

Finding a church isn’t easy, but it’s easier when those seeking learn to ask the right questions.

Godspeed, Spider-man.